Evolution of the mother.

What is support? How does this impact the planet? That is a question many of us feel. We deeply believe that the Planet will take care of itself. Or perhaps that the man in the heaven's will mend all the destruction we have caused. I invite you to consider differently, if only for this moment. This moment of consideration and slight shift of perspective could very well alter your entire being forever, and for the better. You are loved, you are nurtured and all will come into light eventually. ( this is that Christ energy I was prev. speaking of...) TRUTH OF WHO YOU ARE!
This can inevitably cause us to examine a fundamental principle in the birth working field..."what is support?"
Is support standing guardian over birth ensuring you have exhausted your resources for this family, this individual so that the most optimum outcome is achieved?
Is support silently holding space not one of personal opinion nor wisdom..but one of just holding space for this families vision of birth or an individuals perception of their personal greatness?
Is support shining light on the truth of what your medical intuition, spiritual intuition and highest source are "showing" you to be the facts?
Is support enabling a dysfunctional nervous system response in someone by remaining silent, or is support empowering them to their greatest potential?
When we as birth workers and spiritual midwives come upon a client or colleague who is not in integrity with what they have communicated their goals, or their vision of creation to be..is it not our role to provide them with the experience, knowledge and wisdom they seek from us. Is this not us ourselves stepping into our own "great spirit" and Christ energy?
I have had a recent experience regarding supporting the evolution of a mother. I call the support I attempted to give her, evolution due to this simple truth that I have come to personally know.
Evolution of a mother is a mother who is fearlessly introspecting who she is and who she has become by examining the imprint she is potentially passing on through the nervous system response, and the somatic and limbic imprint upon conception. In the consciousness of this process a fully human being can be born using fully 100% of it's brain, body, spiritual potential. This is the evolution of man for the parents who choose to participate in this consciousness are giving birth and co-creating within the divine and with the divine itself.
How do we know that conscious birth gives way to a fully 100% human being?
All of our personal responses, and perceptions are formed and will continue to manifest throughout the gestational period as manifestations within the nervous system, the brain, the body and ultimately the character of who this human is. We continue to energetically recapitulate these into manifestation and experience in the human form and ripple them into the Planet.
A parent that is choosing to feel supported by a midwife, physician, body worker or friend that disregards their own knowledge of what can potentially harm, or alienate this parent or individual from their own birth experience is not supporting authentically; they are enabling this dysfunction.
An authentic support in this arena would be better called a wound mate. For it is the wounds they are choosing to dys-FUNCTION around.
As a student midwife, and birth worker I fully support a woman to take a stand to NOT dig deeper. There are many families who do not need to be birthing at home..for a home birth takes 100% commitment to digging, planting consciously,weeding, , and harvesting for as long as it takes.
As a student midwife, I of course have my own opinions of how birth should be and look to better the planet and the communities it nourishes..yet an opinion is an individuals own experiences being spoken. How can one have an opinion without the experience?
A perception is based upon a listening we have of another human being. This perception is planted between people the moment they interact. It is up to each of us to nourish whatever that perception is if we are to cultivate our relationships to their highest good. It is also our duty to weed and transform other's listening of our own ways of being. 100% accountability.
Many of us have not done the work to even know who we are being, let alone see and recognize it in another....thus midwives, healers, wise womyn are called such by their community.
The evolution of a mother is a fundamental garden that continues to require diligent planting of introspection, weeding of the shadow aspects, watering with unconditional love and compassion, and harvesting the forward movement of her highest potential for herself, her family, her community and planet.
Some do choose to not step into this garden. That is their choice. They are not wrong. They too require love and resources...so what do we call this type of support?
I feel strongly that this is the optimal environment and reason we have hospitals for women who choose them. There are many more years of transforming the systems in place for better mother/baby outcome...yet some families KNOW that their own activations are better managed and maintained within the medical systems. If a mother KNOWS she can not go to the shadow and the deep imprints for the fear that grips her...that is her clear choice to birth in the hospital and somehow I can not help but KNOW TOO, that deep within her wisdom she regards this as part of her journey back to inner truth and knowledge. This is her journey that brings her one step closer to the genesis of her own birth trauma. Whether or not she is conscious of this or not depends on her own fearlessness to accept "support" and empowerment or enabling illusions.